“I understand that developing a relationship with someone ten plus years older than you can be uncomfortable. Here’s a cheat sheet of questions I’ve used to get the conversation rolling.
What is God teaching you right now?
What is a major life lesson that God has taught you through the years?
I am ____ years old (insert age). What would you tell your ___ year-old self? (Insert same age as before.)
Looking back at your life, what’s one thing you wish you have done differently?
Is there anything I can do for you right now? (This will get you involved in their life through service, which is a great way to get to know someone.)”
Why You Need Relationships with Little Old Ladies
Beecher Proch (Beecher is a man…I was confused at first when I started reading this article and didn’t know the author was male) at Lies Young Women Believe